By Amelia M.L. Montes y "La Bloga" Familia----
Felíz Navidad! Happy Hanukkah! Happy Kwanzaa!
I wish all of you, Queridas y Queridos “La Bloga” readers, a lovely holiday. Enjoy these:
Michael Sedano: Xmas 1969—
Lydia Gil: Here is a snapshot, from 1986, Mayagüez, Puerto Rico:
My holiday memories are full of music, food and drink... In one word: parrandas!
I remember a particular one, senior year of high school...
A friend escaping through a window in the middle of the night so he could join the parranda, then group effort to push the car down the driveway, engine off so as not wake up the family... only to realize the keys were locked inside. Wow! That was 1986. Maybe the coquito will take me back... ¡Felices fiestas!
Ernestoid Hoidaze snapshot:
Sometimes it snows in Phoenix this time of year.
Buñuelos by Melinda Palacio
When they are done
Christmas crunches in your mouth.
Think of a sweet tortilla, deep
fried with cinnamon and sugar
left over from last week’s ojarascas,
those lard cookies linger
in the belly during a week
of festive cooking, chocolates, and ham.
After the tamales, before midnight of the New Year,
it’s time to stretch buñuelos on your knee.
Everyone’s gone to champagne parties.
My grandmother hands me the masa disks.
I paper every surface of the house, run
back to the kitchen with urgency.
She rolls them out at a steady, swift pace.
Buñuelos need to dry before they are fried.
An eerie sight for the night.
Melted Dali clocks on chairs,
on the dining room table,
on dish towels over the sofa,
some buñuelos stretched too thin
like old torn sheets. December ends.
A New Year begins with last year’s green
Tupperware filled with crisp buñuelos.
This was my first navidad memory in the United States. I was in school and the teacher, Mrs. Allen, told the class to do a Christmas card. I drew some poinsettias and a candle in my card. Now I was ready to write. I tried to write “felices fiestas” but my friends in the classroom said that “happy parties” did not sound right. Then I remember that in El Salvador, we said “felices pascuas” at Christmas night. So I wrote “happy poinsettias”. My friends laughed at me. The teacher looked at my card and I told her that in El Salvador, “felices pascuas” was our greeting to say “feliz navidad.”
When the school bell rang, Mrs. Allen told me, “Don’t go yet. Do you know who José Feliciano is?”
I nodded. “He is a singer, un cantante.”
“Yes, he is! Have you heard his Christmas song?”
I shook my head.
She smiled and opened a drawer. “Let’s listen to this song.”
Mrs. Allen played the song, and José Feliciano’s voice filled the classroom.
I started singing with Mrs. Allen:
“Feliz Navidad, Feliz Navidad,
Prospero Año y Felicidad.
I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas,
I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas
from the bottom of my heart."
“I got it! Merry Christmas,” I said to Mrs. Allen.
“Merry Christmas, René,” she said. “You can take the tape home and learn the song. Tomorrow you can teach it to all the students. We will sing it for the Christmas show.”
“Yes, Teacher,” I told her, and ran to catch the school bus. I had extra homework to do, to teach the song to Mamá and Papá and also to my brothers in El Salvador. I would call them and say, “I know a song in English. Listen.” They would be very proud of me!
Here's my Xmas card for this year, dealing with requests [not for gifts} and deserving {not of gifts] and gifts possessed.
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I've asked many things of Spanish-English-speaking children:
I asked them to grasp their pencils correctly, no matter their thin fingers shivered from aching empty stomachs.
I asked them to mentally compute their addition, no matter monsters filled their heads, crawling out of bleaker pits of poverty.
However, I've never asked
whether they mattered.
Because, out of their billions of wonderings,
they never asked me why they didn't deserve a full stomach, or their own room or bed, or
prosperity.
They just knew.
In two tongues,
and one distinct mind.
tatiana de la tierra: four snapshots—
--My father hides in back bedroom during the party and only comes out to grab food & run back in. He won't socialize. In the morning, we (us kids) bring him his presents to bed and make him open them. (He had Christmas childhood trauma so could never participate....)
--We were really poor growing up and Christmas was a time to make up for the lack of the whole year. A lot of the presents were necessities. Then, when there was money to be had, we had more presents than anyone I knew, and real ones this time. My mother was (is) very generous with many, not just the immediate family. Presents piled around the Christmas tree, tons of them.
--We had a policy, that you had to wait until midnight to open the presents. I guess cuz that's when baby Jesus was supposedly born? This was the rule for most of my life, until it was broken a few years ago, which really pissed me off. Anyway, at midnight, the passing out of the presents was orchestrated, and everyone had their own pile. The piles were big and there was huge frenzy of everyone ripping and yelling at once. Like a happy chaos. In the morning, the house was trashed with presents & food etc. Like the house had a Christmas hangover.
--My mom used to make these huge & intricate pesebres. She used textiles, rocks, glitter, lights, wadded up paper, miniature houses and people, trees, etc (made of clay, brought from Colombia) to create mountains , rivers, streets, neighborhoods, and the Jesus-in-a-manger scene. They were really elaborate, a work of folk art.
Manuel Ramos
Christmas always meant making the rounds to the two grandma houses on Christmas Eve. Antonia was the great cook and so we enjoyed homemade tamales, several pies and cakes, and sometimes a dinner of ham, fideo, and beans. Her celebration was subdued, calm, almost spiritual. Filomena was the authority over a massive brood of people - so many cousins, aunts, and others whose connections to the family I never learned. More food (homemade tamales again, green chile, menudo) and waiting until midnight to open the presents. By that time, the kids were wiped out or high on cookies, candy canes, and Christmas frenzy.
Filomena's house turned into a wild and noisy party. But the chaos was instantly silenced by Filomena when she placed the Christ child in the manger of her extensive nacimiento.
We all prayed for a minute or two (the kids eyeing the huge pile of presents under the big tree). The party started again with the rush to the presents. Paper, ribbons, and bows flew through the air; kids screamed; parents beamed. And then we all slept late the next day.
The tamale factory line in the kitchen began in the early morning the day before Navidad. We were instructed by mi abuela, mama, and tias to sit and place the filling (whether it was pollo, cerdo, raisin sweet filling) in the middle, then fold the cornhusks just right and tie them on the ends.
It was never tiring because of all the chisme y cuentos that also went around the table. You wanted to stay and help make the tamales because then you’d find out all sorts of stuff you didn’t know—like the time tia Chala talked about the cemetery where tio Chucho was buried and how during a flood, all the coffins began floating down the street like a parade. She said they found tio Chucho’s coffin, but he wasn’t in it. All of us stopped folding the tamales when she said, “pero he wasn’t in it.” “Pues que paso,” we asked. Chala never missed a beat in folding her tamal: “They had put the body in another box,” she said. “He was in the box with la fulana Cristina!” We gasped. “Yes, Cristina,” Chala said, tying the tamal in her hands. “Finally united in death because they were married to other people in life.” Who knows if this was true or not, but it kept us making those tamales!
felices fiestas, profligate pascuas, and lots of laughs. merry christmas! mvs
ReplyDeletemsedano,That's quite a story about Tokyo. You came up with the right gesture. Of course, the protest leader just presumed you were stationed in Vietnam, rather than the nation Japan ravaged just a few years earlier. He didn't know your anti war stance either. All's well that ends well, especially when you are with your best gal (only gal at that point;)
ReplyDeleteGreat collection of stories and images.
Merry Christmas!